Tipping Your Flight Attendant

The job description I answered when I first got hired as a flight attendant in 2005 made mention of “problem solving skills,” “attention to detail,” and “customer service oriented, ability to think ahead for the customer,” not to mention the need for 2 years prior heavy customer service job experience. The characteristics listed are all traits that the perfect flight attendant should have and most DO have.

There are those few flight attendants out there who have become jaded over the years and believe that because their company treats them badly they have a right to treat their passengers the same way. These flight attendants are not contractually signed to work for these airlines, so why don’t they just quit and leave the job to those who enjoy it and want to be there? But thats a whole other blog post.. my point is, in this day and age good customer service is a necessity to keeping your business alive, whether it be in the airline industry or not.

In other service related industry’s we reward good customer service. We tip our waiters at restaurants, bartenders at the bar, the movers, the folks who deliver oversize goods that don’t fit in our car’s, so why don’t we tip flight attendants?

I’m currently working for my third airline, and each airline has had a strict policy on accepting tips. My first two taught us in our initial brainwashing… I mean.. initial training..sorry.. that accepting tips was rude, we were making a livable wage and shouldn’t accept them. We were told that if someone offered us a tip we had to decline. My current airline initially told us accepting tips was okay, later instituted a “no tips” policy, but then changed their mind again, saying it was okay after declining the tip once; after that it was considered rude. No one I know declines a tip when offered.

A flight attendant, though primarily on board for your safety, is there for your comfort as well. We wait on you like a waiter or waitress would in a restaurant, mix your drinks, deliver your food and even haul it away. We don’t just do it for you, we do it for 149 other people at the same time. So if you’re impressed by the level of service provided by your flight attendant, or if they went above and beyond, or you notice they’re really working hard and still manage to keep a smile on their face…tip them! A dollar or two to you won’t break the bank, you already spent over a hundred on your airfare but it’ll make the day of your flight attendant knowing that their service has been recognized and appreciated. Not only that, remember your flight attendant is only paid once the main cabin door closes and stops getting paid when the door opens. They’re not making as much money as you may think. That $1 or $2 could really make a difference.

The irony in all of this is actually quite comical. Though we’re not “supposed” to take tips– when the hotel that the airline contracts to put up crew members on layovers sends their van driver, who is paid an hourly wage from the hotel, to the airport to pick up a flight crew and transport them to the hotel; the crew members are expected to tip them $1 for putting your bags in the van and driving you 10 minutes to the hotel. Oh yeah, and we’re supposed to tip him again on the way back to the airport. We worked and served you and 149 others for 5 hours on a transcontinental flight and you weren’t expected to tip us $1. How is that fair?

Obviously, I should be a van driver. Instead I choose to be a babysitter, usher, trash collector, waiter, doctor, fire fighter, counselor, mind reader, negotiator, security guard, tour guide, and my favorite..an actor.

  • http://myiwfldays.blogspot.com/ Wendi

    Thank you for writing about this. I always wanted to tip the flight attendants that I’ve flown with but thought that they were not allowed to take tips, which I have always thought was rediculous. Next time I fly, I’m tipping!

  • http://postcardsandcoasters.blogspot.com Sherri

    Interesting topic. My airline doesn’t allow us to accept tips. At least they didn’t 13 years ago when I was in training. Maybe it’s changed? If your airline allows you to accept it great but if they don’t… I don’t think its worth getting in trouble over.

    I get sick of all the fast foods in airports that have a tip line on receipts or a cup for tips. Do they really need a tip?

  • Kristen

    Interesting. I would have thought that tipping a flight attendant (especially only a couple of buck) might put them off. Some professionals don’t want to feel like “the help” by accepting a tip. Good to know it would be appreciated and not seen as patronizing.

  • http://flythefriendlyskies.blogspot.com Megan

    Oh, trust me… as another flight attendant in and out of New York… sitting on runways, dealing with delays and doing 2-3 services by the time we reach our destinations… flight attendants love even the thought of someone wanting to tip us.
    Whether the Flight attendant accepts or declines the tip, it is the thought that counts and we don’t forget that!

    Great post… i love the part about the van drivers. And personally, I don’t mind tipping if they are waiting for us at the airport… but when they are 15-20 minutes late and still expect us to fork over the dough for bad service? That’s when I get a little ticked off. :)

    • Bobby

      I do the same thing with the van drivers!

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  • Noah

    My airline has the “decline first then accept if they insist” policy. It’s rarely offered anyways, but I don’t mind the extra few dollars, not offensive at all.

    When I worked for a regional carrier we had a passenger who always brought a meal for the entire crew after he found out we didn’t get crew meals during the day. Always nice to see his smiling face come up to the boarding door.

    • http://mhaithaca.livejournal.com/ MHA

      I haven’t gotten to the point of bringing meals along with me for the cabin crew, but I’ve been bringing anywhere from a couple to a whole bunch of granola bars and candy miniatures for each flight, depending on the size of the plane. I’ve gotten some astonished looks and some grateful smiles, and a couple of FAs have asked how I knew they were starving and stuck on board with no way to grab a snack.

      “Tip sprawl” bothers me; I don’t think most professions paid at or above the minimum wage need routine tips as well. I do, however, toss change in the cafe tip jar from my counter-served lunch or coffee, and have no objection to tipping for great service.

      In the air, I’ve also always thought FAs weren’t supposed to accept tips, but I figure a snack is never prohibited. :-)

  • Debbie Lee

    AMEN!! HALLELUIA!! Oh oops, this wasn’t a sermon, it was a PSA! LOL! And, I have no problem saying “Thank You very much!” when offered a tip – inspite of company policy. :o )

    • Bobby

      Good! Take the tips! You earned them!!

  • charleston-to-pit-first-time

    Today I had my first flight, and I am 27. I was scared to death but had to do it today. Drove a family member to her new house in SC. Drove from Pittsburgh and it took 11 hours. I flew back from Charleston, to Charlotte, to Pittsburgh. It was a great time and I enjoyed it. I said to myself, I wanna be a flight attendant! Now after reading this, I don’t think so. But I tipped the guy $2 for my coffee, and was not sure to even try to tip or not. He palmed it and slid it into his pocket and said thank you, happy new year. I said same to you.